When it comes to self-esteem and confidence, many people struggle to overcome their fears. And that’s especially true when there’s weight involved. Likewise, this story of a young, obese woman is making the rounds, and it’s rather unique. The sexting addict shares her experience of how the act helped her overcome major issues.
From sharing nudes to embarking upon dirty exchanges, this 24-year-old has done it all. And now, she’s speaking out about her personal experience.
‘I have been overweight my whole life,’ says sexting addict
The anonymous 24-year-old woman describes how she was overweight her whole life. Similarly, she explained how the terms body-conscious became such a ‘norm.’
Recently, she’s lost quite a bit of weight. However, when you’re 24 and a size 26, life gets pretty difficult. Throughout her journey, she explains how much difference a lack of self-esteem makes. And that’s coupled with the fear of having sex and revealing your true naked self in front of someone else.
Moreover, her fear was so real that she couldn’t even imagine showing her upper arms, without hyperventilating. And the entire ordeal started taking a toll on her daily life.
Weight and relationships- an unmatched pair
‘I always thought sex and boyfriends were solely for skinny girls,’ she claims. ‘My body wasn’t desirable and simply couldn’t be, unless I lost weight.’
And that’s exactly the mindset with which she spent the first 20 years of her life. She never looked at boys or talked much. All of her friends had partners and she was the odd one out. At times, she appeared as the ‘third wheel’ on lunch tables.
The sexting addict never went on dates. Also, it wasn’t uncommon for people to hurl jokes. Meanwhile, she expressed how no boy ever showed any interest in her. And the same sad story continued during her university life.
The uprising of the Tinder account- tables turned
The anonymous 24 years says she made a Tinder account. And that’s when her life started to turn around.
‘I felt very strange at first. After all, there’s a lot of stigmas that surround dating applications.’ However, I soon realized I didn’t need to. I became a pro, swiping away in my free time.’
Yes, the sexting addict explains how her tinder account turned into her therapy. She enjoyed looking through so many guys’ profiles. Similarly, it was like turning the tables. And that’s because now, she was the one judging boys on their looks.
However, swiping soon turned into sexting. But that’s not all. Her idle conversations were now dirty exchanges. She even sexted a guy with plenty of nudes, feeling shamed the next morning.
‘I don’t know where this sexy version of me came from,’ she exclaimed. It was like a newfound glory that had been missing.
A little fun turned into a pleasurable addiction
The anonymous young woman describes how she felt judged by all those in her surrounding. She also had a panic attack, after she told one of her closest friends about her ordeal.
Nevertheless, all that shame and guilt couldn’t make her stop. And she continued as a pro. It made her feel fabulous and confident about herself. Above all, when the same man messaged her that night, she was elated beyond belief.
Therefore, she continued sexting for more than a year. In the end, she probably spoke to hundreds of guys, losing track of the exact number. This was not a problem for her. She enjoyed her experiences at the core.
On the whole, every experience helped her love her body. It was like regaining new lost confidence, despite feeling a little ‘slutty.’
Sexting addict further described how she likes what she sees in the mirror now. And even her friends noticed the change. She’s grateful to her online trysts for helping her out.
Currently, she’s in a great Tinder relationship and even has real sex without any shame.
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