A woman has revealed how she was left feeling jealous and distraught after her boyfriend slept with his dying friend and kept it a secret from her.
Posting on Reddit, the woman said that the friend was dying and her final wish was to do it with a person close to her.
Even though her boyfriend’s friend had already passed away, she just found out about it and jealousy was ‘eating her up.’
“I hate myself because I get angry inside whenever he mentions her. I can’t express my jealousy because she’s dead anyway,” she wrote.
“This jealousy is eating me up. They totally had emotional s*x because of her condition. I don’t even know who initiated it. It was probably something like how she didn’t want to die a virgin.”
Even though she was sure that her boyfriend was not attracted to his friend, she ‘did have a secret crush on him.’
The unnamed woman explained that her boyfriend has always been good ‘even when he’s at his lowest now’ after the death of his friend.
In an update, the woman said that she talked to her boyfriend about it and that he had ‘regretted it immediately.’
“He didn’t tell me because he didn’t know how I’d react and was afraid that I’d dump him. He didn’t want to hurt me (but he did anyway because he didn’t talk until now),” she added.
Reddit users were quick to share their thoughts on the matter, with one person commenting: “Dude what? I would do a lot of things for a dying friend’s last request but disrespecting my relationship and cheating to give them one last thrill is out of the question.”
Another said: “I don’t think he’s as innocent as you’re attempting to brainwash yourself into thinking. He had an opportunity, took it, then regretted it, as most cheaters do.”
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I suggest that you temporarilly cut it off for 3 months. Maybe it will help both of you to decided.
So whatif he did sleep with a friend who was dying ! It was a noble and selfless thing to give a bit of comfort to someone who didn’t have long to live He didn’t tell his girlfriend because he knew what her reaction would be
If anyone had spent time with a terminally ill person it is not a thrill ! You are trying to do the best you can It is emotionally draining Grow up !
Post with your name if you want a voice.
Um no. Does not matter if someone is terminal or not cheating is not ok. And yes my husband is sick and on oxygen so I know it’s not pretty.
You are morally bankrupt if you think what he did was ok.
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I would say he was probably in an impossible position. He could have said no but how? If my best friend was was dying I would do anything for them
I say he did a good thing .sex is only sex .he loves you that’s all that matters .
Fornication is wrong period. Sex is not a recreational activity.
You’re an idiot. He comforted a friend who was dying. Why on earth would you be jealous of THAT????
Comfort is a hug or sitting with someone. Having sex is an open betrayal of the person you are supposed to love. She has every right to be upset and if he’s that unconcerned with how his girlfriend feels she needs to dump his sorry ass. She’s an idiot for permitting him to treat her this way.
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